Listen

 I try to explain things to him sometimes. I do this because I'll say something and he like looks at me crazy. So I try to explain and then he gets all upset like I'm talking shit or something. But thought he wanted me to let him know when things are on my mind. For instance, last night we were fooling around and as soon as he went to umm put it in, he got soft. So I tried, For about 20 mins to get him back up but it just wasn't working. I could see him getting more and more frustrated. Then he suddenly just gets super heated and starts cussing himself and whatnot. So I tried to explain to him that when he let's something Iike this frustrate him, all he's doing is ensuring that it doesnt work at all. Because like who's gonna get a hard on when they're pissed and cussing themselves out. I tried to get him to just calm down because A. It's not that big of a deal. It happens. And B. If he calms down he might actually be able to get it back up. But then he just looks at me like i just insulted him. I was just trying to help. I ask why he let's it get to him so much and he thinks he's disappointing me. But he's not. And I told him that. It really isn't that big of a deal. He usually had zero problems getting and staying hard for me. I'm sure it's just a fluke. But I just want him to listen when I'm trying to help him and at least take my words into consideration. But he doesn't. Not just then but several other times he's had some sort of issue so I try to pitch an idea for a solution and he just acts like I wasn't even speaking. Then hours later when he comes up with the idea I already pitched and it works I want so badly to say I told you so. But that would just start an argument. I jus wish he would respect me enough to listen to me sometimes.